“Self-care is never a selfish act – it is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have, the gift I was put on earth to offer others. Anytime we can listen to true self and give the care it requires, we do it not only for ourselves, but for the many others whose lives we touch.” – Parker J. Palmer, Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation
Looking after myself, my self care, is very important to me. As any of you who have received my recent newsletter will know, this year I’ve listened to my body and my needs even more than ever and cut down on my work commitments as I need to slow down and draw in, rest and dream as the days shorten and the nights lengthen. It’s only natural that our energy levels wane as we head through Autumn and into Winter. After all, we’re animals and in the same way that hedgehogs, squirrels, grizzly bears and all the other creatures hunker down and hibernate, we naturally feel that irresistible pull to slow down too.
So, part of my self care at the moment has been rescheduling some of my work projects for the Spring when my energy levels will be rising and I’ll be feeling more upbeat and raring to go. Finding this restful space feels just right for me right now. I’m still aware of what’s going on around me but I’m not comparing myself to others and I’m staying close to me and my needs.
In my recent blog post, I mentioned that I think that self care is all about deep listening, embodiment and reconnection to you and your own needs, listening to the messages from your body and creating space for you to be with you, doing what you want and need to do.
“An empty lantern provides no light. Self-care is the fuel that allows it to shine vibrantly, lighting the way for others.” -Unknown
So, as you can see, self care isn’t about extravagant trips to a luxury spa, long holidays or a pamper afternoon at the local salon, although it can be, it’s whatever you need it to be and it can be something pretty ‘boring’ as brilliantly illustrated on Hannah Daisy’s colourful Instagram feed with the tag #boringselfcare, such as booking a smear test, eating breakfast, resting or making a phone call that you’ve been putting off.
Over the next month, I challenge you to check in with yourself every day and do one small thing for you that you want and need to do.
It doesn’t have to cost anything; it doesn’t have to be complicated; it just has to be for you.
So, if you’ve been thinking about someone who you haven’t spoken to for ages, just pick up the phone and call them; if you’re overwhelmed by the number of emails in your inbox, schedule 10 minutes to check them and delete ruthlessly; or if your shoulders are a little achy, take a few minutes to do some slow shoulder rolls.
Listening to yourself and adding self care into your daily routines can bring you comfort and contentment and a much improved sense of mental and physical wellbeing.
“Our bodies are our gardens to which our wills are gardeners.” – William Shakespeare
What have you done today just for you to support your self care?
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If you need support with your self care, I can guide you but only you can work out what you need and start a self care routine of practices that work for you.
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